Saturday, May 21, 2011

I'm back~

This 2 words im back is always came out from Cavan's mouth when he step in the house.
Now want to say i'm back.. lost a lot time to update d blog, it is a waste that i decorated my blog such beautiful. must come n update more ya..

Thursday. 26.5.2011 7.45pm

After Stamos tuition he called me n said: mama where r u waiting for me?

i said: i call d bus driver 806 waiting fr u at interchange, just go to d interchange n look fr d bus 806, d bus driver will send u back (bcos today want him to come back by himself, i said that as d 1st word he expected me to wait him somewhere else.. :P)

he said: ok

jiejie overheard our conversation, n she don't understand y i asked him to look fr d bus driver n asked me how cum i knew d bus driver.. she kept asking me... after i told her d conversation betw mos n i, she still nt understand... finally, i worried abt mos, call daddy to call him, check it out.. well he knew to take bus home by himself...

after he hm,

i asked: mos, do u understand what was i talkin abt when u called me?

he said: nt really..

i asked: then hw u bk?

he said: take bus lor, but i dunno who is d bus driver, just see that d bus driver looking ard, when i get in d bus, d driver nodded to me...

me: ............. (almost faint)

i found that next time i must speak straight to them!! seriously!!

Bid Goodbye at 8:00 AM

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

18-08-2010

I am very very upset, now2.42am, i can't sleep, it's so depressed.

because today i scold tiffany, and shout at her infront of her frds.
she requested to stay in school revise with her frds, and she told me that will reach home at 4pm. Yet, today she reach home at 6.15pm beside that she called b4 she home, she called abt 5.20pm and told me that because of the raining, she can't leave the school.. this is the reason what's make me angry..

Bid Goodbye at 11:41 AM

Monday, July 26, 2010

Lost my time~

recently really have no much time to update..

but its really have a lot of things happened!

will update soon..

Bid Goodbye at 8:43 AM

Monday, July 5, 2010

28/6 - 5/7

Time flies~ been a week i didn cum to the post.



I should be more free while the school reopened, but dunno y there's more busier, maybe Cavan without gorgor and jiejie 's accompany, keep stick to me and caused me no time to update my post?



well, this whole week, still acceptable for Tiffany 's performance. but...



1st day of school - early in the morning was drove from school to go home for changing shoe, as she wore the "pattern" shoe to the school... Grrrrr (angry) really dun understand, she knew that that is break the school rule, yet she still trying to show something???



4th day of school - reached home @ 7.46pm and CCA ended at 6.15pm~



Sunday 5/7/10 yesterday i lost my temper to her, i shouted at her until i lost my voice and sweat my whole body~ gosh.. bcos of what i lost such way.. cos she sticked to her hp?? cos she haven't go and wash her shoe while i told her to do it for few times?? and bcos of telling all these to her, she kept not admitted what she did??? Sigh~ Deep Breath~ i really mad bcos of these.. but think back, i really dun need to lost till this way.. at night, i found my menses come, i knew the reason why i couldn't control my temper.. well, i never never had this happen b4 i had Cavan.. physical changed now???


Today is holiday in liew, bcos yesterday is youth day, Tiffany ask for gg out with frds, then i brought Stamos n Cavan go northpoint to have Macdonalds, after mac, we go lvl 4 playground and play. Stamos still having a baby heart.. when he saw those water playground, he "chiong" over there and play, and play till dun wan to leave.. hahaha.. Cavan start to learn how to walk, in the playground, he can stand still by himself and move a step, i think another 1 mth he can walk by himself already...

at nite, i want stamos to learn his chinese, i typed it out all the common character that he doesn't regconised, then sit beside him go thru one by one with him, at the same time, Tiff have nothing to do, she rather lying on the bed listening the music by her hp than revise her books, then i asked her to come and learn together.. at d end, the learning become a game, want them to pronoun d character and giving a word with it.. who giving more words will get points... found that quite useful, they can learn in the game.. hopefully i also can learn how to control my temper, for me good also for them... then everybody happy~

Bid Goodbye at 8:57 AM

Sunday, June 27, 2010

"1 week pocket $" program -- 27/6/10

this program is purposely made for Tiffany, Start from term 3, she will get $35 of her pocket $ for weekly.

The purpose is for controlling of spending & handling her own $$.

To have and continue the "1 week pocket $" program must follow the conditions below:-

1. Must show cash book everyday.
2. Must buy foods to eat everyday.
3. No fake records on cash book.
4. $5 to be top-up to E-zlink weekly.

If $ spending cannot be controlled or didn't follow the conditions above, "1 week pocket $" program will be cancelled.

p.s. $5 to be top-up to e-zlink for everyweek. end of the week, if there is extra $ in e-zlink and enough for the trip to school, she can go to school by herself.


sometimes i am thinking.. am i thinking too much to do this kind of things?? or some people will think why can't just give her an amount of $ for a week or a month, and without setting this kind of stupid rules..

how wish i can do that, really can save many cells of my brain.. but its doesn't work to her, and will create more problems.

Tiffany is such a nice, sweet and thoughtful girl.. but the problems to her is - she cannot controlled by herself when making a decision, or doing something that she shouldn't go and do. in d end she will do the WRONG things. Cos it happened before, so i try to help her control but by herself under my monitor, if she can think more mature, no more asking why, why, why.. maybe that's the day she know WHY.. then thats the time i can let her go.. that's the time i can relax.. that's the time i can go travel looo..... ;P

Bid Goodbye at 7:42 AM

COMMITMENT for the term 3&4 by Tiffany 27/6/10

Term 3 Sch Reopening.
Tiffany commitment do by herself.

1. Pass 5 subjects including maths.
2. come back home on time.
3. Dun text message or stick to the hp when @home.
4. No complaints from teacher.
5. tie up hair when its long.
6. Clip up fringe when it touches eye.
7. wear socks above ankle.
8. dun keep talking during class, pay attention.
9. dun keep forgetting or lose my consent form and hm wk.
10. Lastly complete hm wk on time.

the aboves all done by Tiff.
as for her last 2 terms results and some misbehaved happened, i want her to make herself a commitment. That's not only to keep reminding herself, and also hope she can achieve what she aiming for. sometimes she will easily forget her purpose of doing something. Hope this commitment can help her to achive her goal. :)

Bid Goodbye at 7:35 AM

Saturday, June 26, 2010

26 June 2010

Tiff & Mos was not home today, they went to Mummy there last nite. every week when they gg out with mummy, can be said is my OFF day.. keke.. ;P cos i dun need to arrange their meals, i dun need to lecture them, dun need to ask them do this n that..

Mon reopen school, the most happiest is Tiff, cos she can go to school to meet her frds... compared to last time when i was in secondary sch, how wish i dun need to go sch.. the purpose that she and me gg to sch is all difference... i m so worry abt her, dunno she can go to sec 2 or not.. Last term, her form teacher told me that she failed the average marks, confirm will retain, but she put in double effort, she can go to sec 2... she doesn't show any interesting in her sch wk. I hope she can change from this new term start.

Bid Goodbye at 7:32 AM