Sunday, June 27, 2010

"1 week pocket $" program -- 27/6/10

this program is purposely made for Tiffany, Start from term 3, she will get $35 of her pocket $ for weekly.

The purpose is for controlling of spending & handling her own $$.

To have and continue the "1 week pocket $" program must follow the conditions below:-

1. Must show cash book everyday.
2. Must buy foods to eat everyday.
3. No fake records on cash book.
4. $5 to be top-up to E-zlink weekly.

If $ spending cannot be controlled or didn't follow the conditions above, "1 week pocket $" program will be cancelled.

p.s. $5 to be top-up to e-zlink for everyweek. end of the week, if there is extra $ in e-zlink and enough for the trip to school, she can go to school by herself.


sometimes i am thinking.. am i thinking too much to do this kind of things?? or some people will think why can't just give her an amount of $ for a week or a month, and without setting this kind of stupid rules..

how wish i can do that, really can save many cells of my brain.. but its doesn't work to her, and will create more problems.

Tiffany is such a nice, sweet and thoughtful girl.. but the problems to her is - she cannot controlled by herself when making a decision, or doing something that she shouldn't go and do. in d end she will do the WRONG things. Cos it happened before, so i try to help her control but by herself under my monitor, if she can think more mature, no more asking why, why, why.. maybe that's the day she know WHY.. then thats the time i can let her go.. that's the time i can relax.. that's the time i can go travel looo..... ;P

Bid Goodbye at 7:42 AM

COMMITMENT for the term 3&4 by Tiffany 27/6/10

Term 3 Sch Reopening.
Tiffany commitment do by herself.

1. Pass 5 subjects including maths.
2. come back home on time.
3. Dun text message or stick to the hp when @home.
4. No complaints from teacher.
5. tie up hair when its long.
6. Clip up fringe when it touches eye.
7. wear socks above ankle.
8. dun keep talking during class, pay attention.
9. dun keep forgetting or lose my consent form and hm wk.
10. Lastly complete hm wk on time.

the aboves all done by Tiff.
as for her last 2 terms results and some misbehaved happened, i want her to make herself a commitment. That's not only to keep reminding herself, and also hope she can achieve what she aiming for. sometimes she will easily forget her purpose of doing something. Hope this commitment can help her to achive her goal. :)

Bid Goodbye at 7:35 AM

Saturday, June 26, 2010

26 June 2010

Tiff & Mos was not home today, they went to Mummy there last nite. every week when they gg out with mummy, can be said is my OFF day.. keke.. ;P cos i dun need to arrange their meals, i dun need to lecture them, dun need to ask them do this n that..

Mon reopen school, the most happiest is Tiff, cos she can go to school to meet her frds... compared to last time when i was in secondary sch, how wish i dun need to go sch.. the purpose that she and me gg to sch is all difference... i m so worry abt her, dunno she can go to sec 2 or not.. Last term, her form teacher told me that she failed the average marks, confirm will retain, but she put in double effort, she can go to sec 2... she doesn't show any interesting in her sch wk. I hope she can change from this new term start.

Bid Goodbye at 7:32 AM

Friday, June 25, 2010

25 June 2010

Its so fast, i haven't got time to update the blog yet, but 2 days already over.

almost forgot what happened to the kids yesterday, but only the happened make me very upset, that's last nite when bathing for Cavan, cos i didn't put him in the bath tub and let him holding me to stand, i hold him tight and he sliped and fell down. "PANG" very loud then knocked his head backside. my heart feel very pain~ poor Cavan was handled by such stupid mum.. :(

Today Stamos was stressed by me, another 2 days is school reopen, i asked him to take out all the homework and double check for him, yet saw his chinese homework not completed, and those handwriting really very bad. then i want him to redo it. the whole afternoon he was slagging ard, can't sit properly and focus his home work, until after his tuition, he start panic as going to mummy place. I was telling him if he don't finish his home work, i would tell his mummy to wait at NP until he finish, i think maybe he rushing, he can't focus and forgot a lot of chinese character. have no choice i told him to bring his home work to mummy there and do. that moment he very glumsy, shown unwilling..

For Tiffany, today her 2 good frds (Peiling and Huishan) come and look for her, they went downstair gathering. i asked Tiff to invite Pei & Hui cum up our house, when they reached, they just standing outside the door, and daren't to come in. I actually trying to treat them like my frds, talk them like my frds, then i can more understand what Tiffany are going on.. but yet, heard that as for their age, still scared to talk to the elders too.... Hmm.. maybe another 2 yrs will b better.
then after the gathering, Tiffany came up, her face very sad, i found something wrong, asked her what happened to her, she told me she had quarrel with Hui, and bcos of tiffany didn't send them off, yet she was there with other frd.
For their ages, these are always happened, if they can't go thru all this small matters, their friendship will not b long, yet sometimes they forgive more, maybe the friendship going to forever.. Tiffany, don't be sad, be happy, cherish very moment with your friends, they will understand one day. And ... Tomorrow will be better!

Bid Goodbye at 11:34 AM

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

23 June 2010

This morning raining cat & dog, I didn't go to pasar, cooked porridge for our breakfast + lunch.

afternoon doing some account stuff, updating blog and taught Stamos chinese. His chinese super weak, some common and basic character he couldn't remember, so i want him to write down all the charater which repeated studied few times in this 2 weeks and want him to read, after he read then can go out for jogging with me. But he can't focus and kept playing at the time while reading. In the end, he stayed at home and Tiffany followed me to go jogging.

Recently set my schedule for jogging at Wed, Sat & Sun. Want to get rid of my fat, since Cavan birth, i hardly to lose my weight, even thought i had diet. Today Tiff accompay me to go jogging, she ride bicycle and i runned. This was the 1st time she go with me, feeling super good.. if every time jogging she go with me will be more motivation. :)

Today Cavan kept on trying to stand by his own, i believed another 2 more weeks he can start to walk. :)

Bid Goodbye at 7:39 AM

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

22 June 2010

I going wet pasar everyday, and this June School holiday i go as usual but bringing along 3 children, go pasar buy veggie & meat for preparing dinner, btw bringing Tiff & Mos there hanging at bubble tea shop craving food and drinking.

Daddy started a new business, quite busy recently, and i also help him to do account stuff, share the burden for him, hope he can do well in his business, for the family, hope i can cope for 3 kidz, especially Tiff & Mos, Tiff's behavious & Mos' studies.

This school holiday i found that Tiff has behaved better, recently she will automatic helped me to do some housework although there are some housework she don't like to do.. for MOs.. em.., as for his last term exam's result not in our expectation, i tried to help him revise, and asked him to write diary everyday, make sure he can remember those basic wording and write a proper sentences.

For Stamos's Tuition, already changed to a tuition centre which is located at Blk 414, for some reasons, i made this decision for not stressing myself, althought daddy said to let him continue Teacher Jennifer's tuition. Stamos already attended for 2 lessons, heard from him said that, tuition center is better than teacher Jennifer, am for my own thinking is.. Stamos dun like Teacher Jennifer, maybe he worried i will send him back to Teacher Jennifer, anyway.. the only matter is i just hope he can help for his studies.

For Tiffany's Studies, i can see that she really shown no interesting in her weakness subject. this holiday, i tried to "force" her to revise geography, history and science, although she read, but i can see she really dun understand and can't absort it.. what i can do and help!!?? I really has no idea...

For Cavan, teething no.5&6 cuming out, learning to stand by himself without holding anything. but his temper no so good, maybe same as me?? keke.. arhar.. today he dun hv poopoo !!!!

Bid Goodbye at 9:09 AM

Monday, June 21, 2010

21 June 2010

This can be said is a diary, found that time is flying thru my life fast, i want to catch very moment down.. and have the memories in the past.

Recently Tiffany taught me how to change the blog skin, it's gave me inspiration to do a new blog for them, i updated cavan blog for abt 2yrs, yet i haven't get one for Tiff & Mos, isn't sound that they are not important in my life?? NOPE!! absolute NOT! I luv them, since i was got along with my husband, i already luv them, luv their innocent, naughty, thoughtful, playful, etc...

It's been 6-7 yrs i stayed together with them. Till now i already have my own. of course i still luv them more n more n more.. but the situation now is they are no more toddlers, they have grown up to teenagers, a lot of problem come to me, education, life, freedom, etc...

Know that this is kind of period that i been thru when i was teenager, but the generation is different now, somemore the environment is also a big different from my generation to now. Hopefully i can get it thru, hold my temper, learn to have more patience to teach them, educate them and LOVE them.

Bid Goodbye at 8:20 AM